Life is nothing more than a series of decisions and choices (most of them small) that add up to something in the end. I was recently reminded of this when Mike forwarded me a newsletter written by the folks over at Keys to the vault.com
I think they did a nice job kicking me in the ass and reminding me that each day we get out of bed we are either ready to disturb the world or just looking to get through the day. If the majority of your days are not days where you are ready to disturb the world in pursuit of whatever it is you want (your goals) then you are settling for mediocrity.
This time of year is great for reflection and planning but as they point out most of us are pretty good at setting goals – what decisions are we making daily to ensure they become a reality.
Enjoy their post.
Josh
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We are funny how we think about some things. New Year’s has taken on a special significance for most of us, as if a calendar or certain date has more meaning or somehow is better suited for some things than any other date.
Our tradition seems to be that late December is a time of reflection, nostalgia and resolutions. And so we postpone commitments about diets, money issues, relationship goals and career changes until January 1. Why do we habitually wait until the beginning of a new year to do our thinking, planning and resolving?
It seems to me that having what we want in life is not based on one giant decision or resolution that is made one time each year. Looking at our collective experiences, we know this strategy does not work… if it did, none of us would have ever made the same resolution more than once and we would all have a 100% track record on the achievement of our New Year’s resolutions.
What we want in our life, whether it is health, financial, relationship or spirit related is a result of a never ending stream of consistent decisions. The first decision is the easy one. It is the subsequent, reinforcing, congruent, small decisions made in the heat of battle that are the ones we struggle with and which ultimately sabotage our dreams.
Anyone can make the decision one time. Sadly, our goals are never achieved with one giant inter-galactically huge decision, but rather with the daily decisions that continuously reinforce the initial decision.
How often do you need to remake your decisions? As often as required to have what you want.
Achieving your goals is NOT a problem of goal setting. We are goal setting experts. It is an issue of continuous, consistent decision making.
Bottom line, you get what you tolerate and most people tolerate mediocrity and average. They settle by refusing to remake the decision day after day. The quality of your life is directly proportional to what you have made non-negotiable and the decision of non-negotiable is made daily.
At whatever point in your life you get clarity on what you want, whether that be New Year’s Eve or August 7, make the decision to keep making the decision for as long as it takes to achieve the goal…. And then make the decision again.
Achieving your goals and dreams is only the first step. Sustaining that success is the real end game.

